FMTY: What, Where, & Why

Have you ever harbored a yearning for a singular escapade, meticulously tailored to your whims? Custom travel presents a captivating opportunity to traverse uncharted territories, forge indelible memories, and broaden your perspective.

If you are asking yourself "What even is an FMTY?" then let me break it down for you. FMTY stands for Fly Me To You, sometimes stands for Train Me To You depending on the regional rail system, and sometimes you'll book a FMTY but I'll show up in my Prius or a slick rental, depending on how far you live from New York City or wherever I am traveling from at that time. The gist of FMTY is bespoke travel on your terms, your timeline, and to the location of your choosing (or our choosing if you're adventurous).

Everyone benefits from an FMTY booking. I love to travel with white glove service, and I am lucky enough to have visited 26 countries on three continents* as an adult. As for you, you get to see me where you want and when you want rather than waiting for the unlikely day that I announce a tour of your town that fits precisely with your schedule.

To be clear, FMTY-style dates are neither reserved nor intended solely for international travel. And they don't even have to be for vacation travel. Bespoke travel simply serves as a conduit for crafting unforgettable experiences with a kindred spirit. The journey itself holds just as much significance as the final destination.

Perhaps a tranquil soiree within your private quarters during a business trip aligns more closely with your desires. Share your suite with me while you are on a business trip somewhere unremarkable, and I bet we will still make memories to last a lifetime. And yes of course it is even better if your business trip is to a destination city or resort.

Consider taking our relationship to a new level by spending a weekend somewhere domestic, without the discretionary concerns of being seen in your hometown. Our simple, organic rhythm could catalyze a camaraderie that could potentially blossom into something more profound and with a touch of serendipitous charm.

And then of course, there is always the apex-level achievement goal of going on vacation together. I speak a couple of languages besides English well enough to navigate plenty of this earth with some grace and humility. Let me prove it ;)

FMTY dates are a special opportunity to create unique experiences unlike anything else you can do in companion dating, and it is the most elevated way to approach someone you fancy.

Shall we embark on a captivating escapade together? Exploration, intimacy and companionship, and a sprinkle of joie de vivre – that's all it takes for this investment in yourself to forever resonate within your soul.

The places from which I’ve collected stamps in my passport so far - and yes, I have had extra pages sewn into a passport before. Some were quick visits, some were several weeks, some several months, and some several years, and yes, of course, there are a few I’ve revisited for the joy of it:

Austria

Belgium

Cambodia

Canada

Costa Rica

Cuba

Denmark

Dominican Republic

England

France

Germany

Guatemala

Iceland

India

Italy

Japan

Jordan

Laos

Mexico

Nepal

Singapore

Spain

Switzerland

Thailand

The Netherlands

Vietnam

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